How did you find out that you were cheated upon? Sometimes people find out through other people who tell us, sometimes we notice things through phones and laptops. And sometimes through emptying someones pockets finding bills and stuff…. Facebook is sometimes an eyeopener. Or a phonecall from an ow (other woman) or an om (other man) that tell us straight the truth. Or sometimes you bust your partner by walking in unexpectedly in your own home!!!!! Anyway there are dozens of ways to find out, how did you find out? And did you had an inkling beforehand already? Or were you taken by surprise?? Did you have a gut feeling already beforehand or were you totally taken by surprise? Was he or she remorseful when it came out, or totally not? Share with us. Let me know…..