There are not only break ups and divorces after this Ashley Madison Hack but also job losses and suicides. For example, New Orleans pastor John Gibson killed himself over this. Very sad because his wife really wanted to forgive him, so she said when she was interviewed over this. But he couldnot live with the shame. In his suicide note he mentioned ashley madison. Many people are checking the sites to see if their partner was on Ashley Madison. One of those checksites are for instance ashley.cynic.al and also Trustify so you can check if your partner was on Ashley Madison. By the way, would you forgive if your partner asked forgiveness? Would you reconcile? Or would you move out?